R Eric Thomas
Bestselling author R. Eric Thomas brings his signature wit and warmth to “Asking Eric,” an advice column tackling life’s quandaries. Drawing on his stint as Slate’s “Dear Prudence,” Thomas dishes out insightful, humorous guidance for navigating relationships, work, and everything in between.
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Asking Eric: Friend still speaking to her ex, despite his mistreatment
Dear Eric: Several months ago, a friend's boyfriend broke up with her. She is devastated over this as she loves him very much. Even though he treated her very poorly...

Asking Eric: Mother resentful after daughter moves back in with ex
Dear Eric: I've always had a close relationship with my mom and, for much of my adult life, I didn't really have a life of my own away from her....

Asking Eric: Neighbors using unlicensed workers for renovations
Dear Eric: My husband and I live next door to a family that, when having work done at their house, tends to use low-wage, unlicensed workers. We found out they...

Asking Eric: Family friend wants to set house rules for my home
Dear Eric: Friends of ours, who live on the other side of the country, have a daughter who is a senior in college in the same town we live in....

Asking Eric: How do I end a friendship for a second time?
Dear Eric: Fast-forward 20 years and we started hanging out again. Girl stuff like going out for lunch. Recently I've realized that, as nice as she is, I just don't...

Asking Eric: Husband relies on me to handle everything
Dear Eric: Every time an issue comes up, whether it's the landlord knocking on the door or someone else, he comes running to me to deal with it and I...

Asking Eric: Husband doesn’t want children’s friends in home
Dear Eric: My husband has told our kids they cannot have any friends inside of our home. They can play in the front yard and that is it.

Asking Eric: No thank you for Christmas gifts
Dear Eric: I got nothing from anyone. Not even an acknowledgement from the kids.

Asking Eric: Mom has become mean
Dear Eric: Since my dad and brother have passed, my mom is increasingly mean, angry, rude and spreads rumors about me and my kids. To the point where she told...

Asking Eric: College student distraught at being away from boyfriend
Dear Eric: I love her boyfriend and support their relationship – he is kind and fun. However, I’m concerned about how quickly they have become emotionally dependent on each other.